SOMATIC SEX EDUCATION with Brigid Blackstone

Come back to the wisdom of your body.

Embodied, educational work for people of all genders and orientations — a place to meet yourself with more choice, sensation, pleasure, and compassion.

There are many ways to arrive here:

“I feel disconnected from my body or sexuality.”

You may feel cut off from your body, your sexual self, or both. We begin by noticing what you feel and what your body is communicating.

“I carry shame around my body, desire, or pleasure.”

Shame around sex and pleasure is common, and it does not mean anything is wrong with you. This is a place to meet it without judgment and begin relating to yourself differently.

“I want to feel more at home in my body.”

You may have spent years feeling uncomfortable, numb, or far away from yourself. We practice slowing down, listening, and being with your body as it is.

“I want to reconnect with desire, sensation, and pleasure.”

Your desire may feel distant, confusing, or changed. We make space to explore sexual energy, sensation, and pleasure without pressure to perform.

“I’m curious about what actually feels good in my body.”

You may not know what kind of touch you enjoy or what brings you pleasure. This is a practice space for finding out, at your pace and in your own body.

“I want to explore boundaries, consent, and communication.”

Consent is something you can feel, not just conceptualized. We practice noticing yes, no, and maybe, and communicating each one clearly.

“I want to practice asking for what I want.”

Naming a desire or sexual need can feel vulnerable. Here, you can practice making clear requests and expressing what you don’t want, too.

“Who am I as a sexual being now?”

After divorce or a breakup following years with the same person, the death of a partner and the grief that follows, menopause, vasectomy, a medication change, or gender transition, what felt familiar may no longer fit. This is a place to discover who you are sexually now.

“Relationship doesn’t feel like a safe place to explore right now.”

You may be post-breakup, choosing celibacy, or carrying complex trauma — and interpersonal relationship may not feel like a safe place to explore your sexuality right now. A clearly held professional relationship can offer the steadiness to begin at a pace that respects your boundaries. It can be practice for dating or lovership again, or simply a way to know yourself more deeply.

Reconnect with your body and mind as you escape the noise of everyday life.
Day One

Arrive & Meet

As everyone arrives, we take time to settle in, get comfortable, and begin connecting with those around us. The journey starts here.

Check-In

9:00 – 9:30am

Group Activity

11:00am

Lunch Break

12:30pm

Creative Workshop

2:00pm

Dinner

6:30pm

Day Two

Set Intentions & Reflect

Together, we pause to consider our goals, hopes, and direction. This is about aligning with ourselves and with the journey ahead. This is a chance to reconnect with what brought you here—your questions, your hopes, your turning points—and consider how they’ve shifted or deepened.

Check-In

9:00 – 9:30am

Group Activity

11:00am

Lunch Break

12:30pm

Creative Workshop

2:00pm

Dinner

6:30pm

Day Three

Look Forward & Wrap Up

We explore the possibilities beyond this moment, making space for growth, action, and forward momentum. As we end our time together, we honor the experience, the growth, and the connections made along the way.

Check-In

9:00 – 9:30am

Group Activity

11:00am

Lunch Break

12:30pm

Creative Workshop

2:00pm

Dinner

6:30pm

  • "What I love most is the flexibility. I can go at my own pace, revisit lessons, and keep learning whenever it works for me."

    Former Customer

  • "Even as a total beginner, I never felt lost. The step-by-step structure and encouragement along the way made all the difference."

    Former Customer

  • "This has been such a worthwhile investment in myself."

    Former Customer

How It Works

  • Browse our upcoming events to find the one that feels right for you. We host events year-round in all different locations and climates.

  • Sign up and pay all required fees to reserve your spot. If plans change, you can cancel up to 14 days before the retreat start to receive a 50% refund.

  • After booking, we'll send you a Welcome Packet with everything you need to know—detailed schedules, packing list recommendations, add-ons to consider, and more.

  • We'd recommend booking your transportation to and from the event as soon as possible, to ensure you can arrive without any complications or delays.

  • Now all that's left to do is pack your bags and get excited for your new adventure.

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